About Me

Am six cubic and a span hieght, light dark in complexion, medium in size weigh 80 kilogules.
like tchating, love people, beleive in living things (not just happened there for purpose)

Interests

love to make friends and having fun with them(no man can stand alone)on planet earth, its also Gods way of taking care of Us humans. allways enjoy the intercourse of playing Pool and basket ball at times. Reading books is an adventure most profound.

Favorite Music

The Roots, Morgan Heritage, Boyz II Men, Marron five

Favorite Movies

Finding william foster, Coming To America, Jonny English, Deacons Of Freedom, Shawshank, The best man, Anti one Fisher,cath the fire,Tsotsi and more black Americans

Favorite TV Shows

Ophra, BLM talk show, Dr phill, EVE,Oboma(whea africa meets),Mokaragana, Frevour Doom the list is endless

Favorite Books

Think Big and Gifted Hands

Favorite Quote

Life is ever a series of partings. Amans pride brings him low bt a man of lowly spirits gains honor

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GettacWatch : Nov 1, 2007

Let's think about some related questions, and
work through them to come up with an answer.

Here are a few that come to mind for me:

"If I act like I'm NOT interested in a
relationship, will that make a woman less
interested in me?"

"Are women automatically "turned off" by guys who
aren't interested in relationships?"

"Are there clues or hints that women look for to
see whether you're interested in a "short term" or
"long term" relationship... or a one-night stand?"

"Will a woman who thinks that you're interested in
a "relationship" act differently towards you if
she doesn't KNOW what your intentions are?"

"Is it 'OK' to be NOT interested in a
relationship, but still want to meet and date a
woman?"

"How do women know when men ARE pursuing them for
a relationship? And how do women typically respond
to this?"

"Is there an attitude towards this whole subject
that not only works best, but is also the most
healthy?"

I'd like you to take a minute and answer these
questions the best you can, based on your own
ideas, experience, knowledge, etc.

These are great questions to ask yourself on a
regular basis, because they make you THINK about
things in a different way.

This ability to THINK ABOUT THINGS FROM
DIFFERENT PERSPECTIVES will give you a much
clearer outlook when you're dealing with a
situation like this one.
I personally think that women have a basic
program when it comes to men that are potential
romantic interests. It says, "If he chases me,
run. If he doesn't chase me, chase him."

Of course, this is a big generalization, and it
doesn't always hold true... but it's true enough
in most situations.

If you call a woman all the time, she'll
probably not call you. If you take a woman to
dinner 4 times in a week, she probably won't be
inviting you over for dinner at her place.

On the other hand, if you go out with a woman
and she has a GREAT time with you, then you don't
call for a couple of days, or maybe you call once
for 3 minutes to tell her that you're busy and
make plans for a few days later, SHE WILL BE
THINKING ABOUT YOU ALL THE TIME.

I also think that women have other little hints
that they look for to see if you're interested in
getting into a relationship.

Do you talk about having kids? Do you ask about
her family and relationships with them? Do you
answer HER questions about these things in a
serious way, as if you're being interviewed? Are
you acting stilted and nervous, as if something
huge is depending on her liking you? Do you call a
lot and get her gifts? Do you check up to see that
she's doing all the time, even though you don't
know her that well?

All of these things are hints that women use to
tell how "relationship minded" you are with her.

Another key point I've realized is that JUST
BECAUSE I AM OR AM NOT LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP
DOESN'T MEAN THAT I'M GOING TO KEEP FEELING THAT
SAME WAY A WEEK FROM NOW.

I've had times in my life when I've been single
and thinking, "I'm not into a relationship right
now", and then I met a fantastic woman that
changed my mind.

I've also had times when I wanted a
relationship, but had more fun being single, so I
didn't pursue one.

Best idea: Approach the whole topic with the
attitude of "I'm open to whatever great
opportunities present themselves."